When the financial collapse happened in 2007, this not only affected the house and banking industry, it affected everyone; this including the wedding industry. What was once a grand idea of a big fabulous wedding turned into being budget conscious and scaling back on one of the biggest decisions of ones life. Marriages statistics as a whole show an up and down scale.

Back in May, International Business Times stated this, According to Fox News; the percent of married households in the United States fell to 48.4 percent in 2010, down from 55.2 percent in 1990 and 78 percent in 1960. This is the lowest in recorded history for our country. In 1960, according to the LA Times, almost 50 percent of the 18-24 year olds and 82 percent of 25-34 year olds were married. Today, it is 9 percent of the 18-24 group and 44 percent of the 25-34 group.

According to cnsnews.com it stated, “The 48 percent of husband-and-wife households in 2010 was the first time since at least 1940 that this has fallen below 50 percent,” said Daphne Lofquist, Statistician for the Fertility and Family Statistics Branch for the Census Bureau.

With these statistics is shows that more and more people are not getting married. Well marriage according to male and female relationships. During the 2010 census some information had to be re-released regarding same-sex household, indicating the total number of same-sex unmarried partner households to be 0.6 percent — 646,464 out of the total 116,716,292 households. Furthermore Lofquist had this to say, “Identifying as a same-sex couple may be more acceptable now than it was in 2000, so that the group who identified themselves as same-sex couples might be a somewhat different group than it was in 2000,” she said.

The Huffington Post reported that University of Virginia researchers found when people get married and have children, several sectors of the economy experience growth. They include childcare, life and personal insurance, household products and services, health care, food, home maintenance and home services, pets and toys. A strong economy depends on a strong family unit because they not only provide the current customer base, but also provide the future workers in an economy. With marriage and fertility rates slowing, this trend of fewer marriages will have a negative long-term impact on the economy.

Katherine Delpra owner of Bride Appeal had this to say about her clients who are wedding planners, “their business is definitely up in 2013… None the less, they are seeing slightly smaller weddings, but a higher quality and volume of clients.”

With all the research age plays a big factor on when one decides to get married. Today, the average age of a first marriage is almost 27 for women and 29 for men, up from 20 and 22 in 1960. It also looks like 15 percent of the population today will remain unmarried compared with the historic norm in the U.S. of 10 percent, as its stated in the International Business Times article.

Kristopher Thomas, a married man of seven years had this to say about the changing winds of marriage; “A strong society starts with a strong family, the foundation of a strong family is a strong marriage”.

Marriage may have declined but as statistics show in order for the economy to grow people need to get married. One could think of it as a “Circle of Life” once nicely stated in the Well-Acclaimed Disney movie “Lion King”. In order to keep order, there needs to be constant flow of checks and balances.

Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas, Personal License.

Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas, Personal License.

When planning a wedding the first thing an engaged couple does is picking a date.  After the celebration is over of the engagement party, now is the time to make the final decision on where the wedding will take place.

The Knot has always been the resource to find all things weddings. Wedding Business Today republished information about the 20 most expensive cities.  This is the 4th annual survey of almost 19,000 former brides that discussed budgets and trends about weddings.

Hawaii, known for its landscape of beauty was ranked No.19 with an average wedding budget of $26,722. Southern Florida (Miami, Fort Lauderdale, and surrounding areas) being a city of warmth, palm trees and the blue ocean ranked No.10 with an average spent on a wedding is $33,810.

The information given from the statistics the majority of the cities are Eastern and Western cities. Chicago, IL is the only Midwest city ranked in the top ten at No.8; with an average budget of $35,197.

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Los Angeles may have Rodeo Drive, but it didn’t make the top five most expensive cities. Ranked at No.6 an average wedding cost $33,810. It shows that many superstars may live there, but when it comes to actually getting married in the city, it falls short of ranking in the fabulous five.

New York may be considered the concrete jungle, but it takes the not only the No 2. for the Outer Boroughs averaging $44,718. Taking the No.1 position is Manhattan, NY with the average wedding costing $70,730.

So as a couple decides on where to get married, they should always reference The Knot to check and see where can you get the best bang for your buck.

Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas

Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas

In today’s society there are many ways to gain access to a picture, quote, and or video. With technology at the forefront and the driving force behind gaining access, there are now new rules and ways to have permission to distribute the items. With the technology of social media on an all-time high the quick access if just a click away. For this a site called Creative Commons was created for a time such as this.

Creative commons not only has pieces of work from others that you can search and share, but this is a great site for those that are just starting out and would like to get a license for their own work to protect. It’s a very simple and self-explanatory. It’s also free.

We sat down and spoke with Kristopher Thomas, Founder and President of R.A. Communications an IT firm, based out Detroit, MI. He helps companies and individuals to fix errors but also, finding new tools and software to further the productivity of your work.

 

Kristopher Thomas, Founder of R.A. Communications, LLC. Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas

Kristopher Thomas, Founder of R.A. Communications, LLC. Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas

When asked about the copyrights and this new way of sharing ideas, he says, “I think ideas shouldn’t be something that you have to pay for”. He feels that with this type of search engine such as creative commons, it allows access to resources with out trading for money.

 

The copyright owner maintains the copyright and allows others to copy and distribute their original work as long as credit is given. The owner can choose to allow others to use the material freely or to select a license for specified uses and attribution to the copyright owner with HTML coding to embed on your site at: http://creativecommons.org/choose/.

Thomas feels this is the furthering of the human experience. He continues on to say that the person gets the notoriety of doing the work, so there is no loss there. When asked about the coalition between the IT aspects of this, he has this to say, you can sell support, you can learn how use it well for free or you purchase the professional support of it. But never having to actually buy the idea (i.e. software).

Chase CC Image

Artwork: Chase 16mons
Photo Taken By: Constance Thomas

 

Everyone wants an exclusive image or multimedia piece of a spectacular event. When events are success, anyone involved wants proof they had some input with the event. Well, in order for someone to showcase this work, the client would need to sign off on a release form.

Photo Taken by Constance Thomas

Photo Taken by Constance Thomas

According to Web Video Zone , a release is a contract that provides legal permission to use the image of the person who signed the form for commercial and non-commercial uses. For the vendor the most important thing for them is the release form. Once the client signs, the vendor now have permission to use any footage, may it be multimedia or still photos to help promote their personal business.

Weddings can be very demanding and very inclusive. Those attending are apart of special event.  With vendors, it is their responsibility to work with you and provide you with the things needed in order for your event to be a success.

With a wedding you don’t need individual release forms because those invited are included in the binding document, being that the couple is asking for their event to be covered, including those invited; there is no “reasonable expectation of privacy” in a public area.

Renee Aaron sat down and spoke with Crystal Marie of C-MY Style Evening Planning, LLC to get some background on how she handles her clients and how the process of the release form is handled. Crystal shared that she keeps “a couple of generic forms, that I cater to each client”. Being to have multiple templates she is able to adjust the document depending on what her and the client have agreed upon signing to the contract.

Photo taken by Constance Thomas

Photo taken by Constance Thomas

When asked about her document process, Crystal stated that she “sits with a client for a one hour consultation (free of charge) discussing their needs and services they are interested in”.  Once ideas have been identified, that is where a contract is sent over and shortly after other documents (release forms) will be sent. She states a release form is not present until the contract has been signed.

Weddings can be very demanding and very inclusive. With vendors, it is their responsibility to work with you and provide you with the things needed in order for your event to be a success. With binding documents this helps protects all parties involved. She shared with us that there hasn’t been an incident where a release form has not been included.

Crystal concluded our interview by sharing these last thoughts, “Everyone needs are different and make sure you are fully prepared.” We appreciate the time Crystal Marie took out to speak with Renee Aaron Events, and if you want more information about C-MY Style Events, click on the link about.

 

A freelance writer lives their life day to day by the work contracted out to them. One would consider themselves as an entrepreneur and not having to deal with the overhead of a big company. Another person may say, living paycheck to pay check because sometimes the work is not always steady.

A writer may sometimes carry their worth by the amount of articles published and owned by them. The main way for protection for a writer is to have their work copy written. The site Dictionary.com states the definition as, the exclusive right to make copies, license, and otherwise exploit a literary, musical, or artistic work, whether printed, audio, video, etc.: works granted such right by law on or after January 1, 1978, are protected for the lifetime of the author or creator and for a period of 50 years after his or her death.

Today you have contracts called work for hire, where it states that a company owns the rights to the work done and if one were to publish this as their own its an infringement. There are two ways in which work for hire works 1) an employee creating copyrightable work in the course of his/her employment; or
2) work specially ordered or commissioned. This may seem unfair but as it shows that is how things go. As a writer it is so important to make sure one looks over their contract when working with a company to see if they have this in their paperwork, (Circular 1 Copyright Basics, pg. 2).

As a freelancer and when doing a work for hire, a writer has to make sure it states that in the contract as “work for hire”, if this is not stated than its not work for hire, besides you are an employee of the company in which you are writing for.

As a writer there is a way in which to cover your bases, it would be to register your work. By logging onto to http://www.copyright.gov/eco/. For a small fee of $35 and a copy of the work, you are legally binding this piece of work and showing ownership. It will show the year, the copyright and the name in who owns the work.

Sometimes in order to get what your worth you have to take five steps instead of two. Instead of writing a piece and publishing your work, take the time to register with the library of congress and paying the fee. Also, when working as a collaborative with someone else, take the time to read the contract thoroughly before signing. Generally speaking many want to be known for their writing, but if you don’t have the proper protection no one will know who you are and the value of your writings.

 

 

Original Wedding Bands of Constance Thomas

Many people feel that there isn’t any privacy when it comes to social networks. Let’s take wedding events for example. Couples today are using the Internet for more than just the search engine to find the best venue and caterer. They are utilizing it to connect many to showcase their everyday planning of their special moments, all on one site.

Mashable did a wedding survey with Carley Roney of  The Knot, she states “It seems the rules of wedding etiquette are evolving as technology becomes part of the wedding plan. The faux pas of sharing information with those not invited is gone, and it’s becoming more and more okay to post openly, even to those who aren’t necessarily attending. We’re seeing a shift in the standard rules of wedding etiquette.”

Original Photo of Constance Thomas Wedding
Taken By: Jennifer Grant

Seclusion doesn’t exsist anymore. Intrusion in your life is what happens with any social netwok. It turns out about one in ten (8%) brides are updating their Facebook relationship statuses within minutes of saying “Yes,” while nearly one in three (31%) did so within hours of getting engaged. Mashable’s Social and Tech wedding survey, done in conjunction with TheKnot.com, shows that today’s bride is both connected and social. In other words, she has hashtags and QR codes, and she knows how to use them.

I recently spoke with newlywed Andrena Smith, who was just married this past November. Her planning process was shared by a Facebook group. When asked the question why, her reasons behind the social network she states, “to save on invitations because when we first made the group no one in the group were apart unless they were special.” The page was made private but with privacy laws changing with Facebook, many were still able to see their information. She states, some didn’t make the cut to join the group but its not because she didn’t want them there. There were some that intruded on their site for information still.

When asked about the reason for making the group private, Smith replied “It was just more comfortable,” she continues to say “most of all we just wanted to do something different that allowed for everyone to be informed”.  For everyone to be informed meant only a select few. Those select few turned into many intruding. No one is safe. So your wedding has now become public domain.

When asked would she share another important event via facebook? Smith ended on saying, “Hmm, I’m not really sure of any events that have the same importance, besides having a child and I thinkit would be awesome if we set up a page with the progress of the baby.” She also states she has no regrets on the openess of the social network.

 

 

 

 

 

As a young bride in 2005, I knew the importance of budgeting and preparing for a wedding. However, as time went on no one gave me a full explanation of how much a wedding would cost. Traditionally the bride’s parent’s pays for the wedding and the grooms parent’s pays for the rehearsal dinner. In today’s society more couples are paying for the brunt of the wedding.

In April of 2011, the royal family had a wedding that cost $48 million paid on the taxpayer’s dime, as stated from theknot.com. According to the The Knot the average American weddings cost $26,984 excluding the honeymoon. Editor and chief Carley Roney stated, “Brides remain committed to planning a luxioruis, memorable event and are willing to spend despite the state of the economy”. With sites like the “The Knot”, The Wedding Wire, and Brides a bride and groom will find the tools needed to ensure they are budgeting and using their money wisely.

While planning my wedding I knew that I wanted the biggest bang for my buck. I made myself aware, that this day is just for a couple of hours and our biggest ticket item would be our photographer. A photographer plays a big factor on how the wedding day will be portrayed for years to come.  Stated on this graph the average amount for a photographer is $2,320. For my husband and I, we wanted those pictures to tell a story where a caption isn’t needed, the images speaks for it self. The average reception site cost #12,124 and the average amount spent on each guest is $194. Again, newly engaged couples know their wedding will cost but you never really get grasp until all the ideas and thoughts one dreamed of having has a price tag with it.

           There are many ways to become cost effective while planning one of the most important days of your life. New ways to cut down on cost would be avoiding the peak season of June-September as stated in the graph. Instead of finding a business to do desserts or centerpieces find a family or friend who is skilled in that area and have them create them for you, cutting your cost drastically.

If I could do my day all over again, I wouldn’t change a thing. I loved every color, venue and item chosen for our wedding. We did kind of miss out on the huge party reception after our ceremony. However, in three years we will celebrate 10yrs of marriage. So the planning has begun and the venue has been chosen. We have prepared our family and friends for an all-night party until you drop celebration, because no one said to throw a fabulous event you need to have the money; maybe not 48 million, but somewhere closer to that 27K range to make it memorable. Happy budgeting!

After Thanksgiving dinner in 2004, my then-boyfriend kneeled down and asked me in front of my family “Would I give him the honor of becoming his wife”. From that day forward, I would walk into a world of all things fabulous, elegant and life changing. For some women, planning a wedding is a stressful time. Brides have the voices of mothers, sisters, BFFs, and maybe even a grandmother giving them an opinion of what needs to be done and how they would like to see it happen. As a coping mechanism, to avoid the voices, a bride will contact me: A wedding planner.

I have always been then “Go To” person for what happening in not just Detroit, but other cities as well. Growing up, I always had a fascination of far away places. I would call for travel brochures, and kept a binder of them. I always loved dressing up and attending events. I knew when my time was right; I would marry that guy GOD intended for me. We would do all the things needed to make sure we have a great marriage, but first we would have to plan the perfect wedding.

While planning the wedding, one can learn so much about weddings. To learn simple tips about favors, locating boutiques and specialty stores where a dress that would normally cost $1,200 is now only $400. Where instead of finding a baker, who owned a store, you meet a woman who makes cakes out of her home and her cakes were just as amazing as a large bakery.

Here at Renee Aaron Events, LLC, we aim to help those brides, write their vision and make it plain enough to where they are not stressed during the process. A bride should have a cost efficient wedding with out breaking the bank. We work with the bride to have a comprehensive budget and timeline, which keeps them on track through out the planning process. Planning a wedding should be fun and memorable, and that’s our goal.